Workshops & Facilitation
All workshops are facilitated through guided conversation and group participation. Because of this, each workshop will have unique discussions and outcomes based on the experiences participants bring into the space.
Interrogating Desires
It is often that the deep, dark roots of our desires is part of what makes them so hot! But what happens when we haven’t interrogated what fuels these desires? Let’s face it, sometimes the things we are into carry a lot of guilt or shame… no matter how kinky, or vanilla they seem.
In this workshop, we discuss the importance of unpacking our desires, self-interrogation, and why it’s helpful to do so before (and after) we play with others, and explore some of the deep, dark roots of our own kinky curiosities.
Intro to Sex & Kink - 2 Day Workshop
More than your average “birds and the bees” talk.
This 2 day workshop explores what I consider to be the foundational pillars of sex and kink: WTF it is, safe(r) sex practices and supplies, consent and autonomy, interrogating desires, and being kinky out in the world.
No matter how vanilla or freaky, you will leave this workshop with practical tools and worksheets, and a better understanding of your own interest in sex and kink.
Power In, Power Out: Unpacking Power Dynamics
How often do we consider the influence of systemic powers and privileges when negotiating our consensual power exchange relationships? How does our own socio-political positioning impact the types of power dynamics we desire?
In this workshop, we identify pre-existing structures of power imbalance around us, explore intersectionality and it’s value in negotiations, and discuss the different ways our access to power can be used, and abused, in our consensual power exchange relationships.